I am far from perfect, I have many flaws. Not just physical flaws, but also, spiritual, mental, and emotional flaws. I admit, I never even attempt to be perfect. Why do that?? To me, that would be so fake, not me at all. I am what I am, and who I am, by the grace of God. What you see, is definitely what you get. Nothing more, nothing less. Barbara Denise Oldham, that is who I am.