Thursday, April 3, 2014

Anger issues

Eddie really needs your prayers, as well as me. I am trying very hard to be patient, and understanding with him. But, he has some major anger issues. For example, last night, he accidentally dropped his cornbread on the couch, then spilled his tea on the floor. Everyone has accidents like this sometimes, including me. Eddie started yelling, and cursing. I got up, and started trying to help with the clean up, he yelled at me, telling me to get out of his way. I told him to please calm down, that it was an accident, no need to get so mad. He told me to be quiet, that he did not want to hear my sugar coated version of what happened. He said, I made a ......mess, and by god, I will clean it up. Now, get out of my way. Why does he have to take everything out on me, and yell, and curse me? I truly do not understand, but, I love him, regardless.

25 comments:

Cranberry Morning said...

I am continuing to pray with you, dear friend. I know this must be very tough.

Never Forsaken said...

Lifting Eddie up to the Lord...Anger is only a symptom of something deeper inside...God can work on this...we only have to ask him.
*In Jesus we ask you Father to heal the broken part of Eddie that is shutting out all your light, we pray for encouragement and protection for Denise as she continues to love and lift her beloved husband up to you each day...Give her a supernatural sense of your presence, peace and joy in the midst of this battle.
Stand before her Lord and fight for Eddie as the enemy tries to pull him away, and remind Denise to be still and know that you are God, and as God you will always win when your children are attacked if they ask and trust in you as we have done! Amen

Me said...

I'm so sorry, Denise. I know it isn't easy for you. I am continuing to keep you in my prayers ♥ Love & Hugs ~ Karen

Karen said...

I am so sorry, Denise. I know it isn't easy for you. I am continuing to keep you and Eddie in my prayers. Love & Hugs ♥ Karen

April said...

Praying for you, Denise.

Alita Jacobi said...

I will also praying for you both. At this moment.

Lea said...

Praying for you and yourguy Denise...

Sharon said...

Prayers are with you, sis.

GOD BLESS!

Jo Rose said...

Praying for you Denise. May you feel God's comfort, and may He change Eddie's heart.

Joyful said...

Adding my prayers dear heart. May God fill your home with peace and change Eddie's heart toward you. Hugs. xx.

HOOTIN ANNI said...

You must remember that he is going through a lot also. At least that is the way I see it. It takes time to heal a heart that needs mending.

Inger said...

I'm so sorry your husband is not able to control his anger.

Stephanie said...

Praying, sweet friend. Love and hugs being sent your way.

Ceil said...

Hi Denise! Bless you for trying to help your husband get past a minor irritation.

I continue to pray for your circumstances. I hope that Eddie will come to understand that he has a wonderful, caring wife.
Blessings,
Ceil

Marian said...

Denise haz un poquito de oración de
intercesión... de liberación...
Un abrazo fuerte.¡Mucho animo, Dios cambia todo!

Joy said...

So sorry to hear you situation Denise. I wish I could do something to make you happy.

BumbleBeeLane said...

Keeping you both in prayer.Big Hugs to you!~Amy

CelestinaMarie@SouthernDayDreams said...

Keeping you both in prayers.
Have a nice weekend.
Blessings!

The Queen of Brussels Sprouts said...

Prayers...

Alecia Simersky said...

Praying...

Gilligan Maryanne said...

ooh Denise I am so sorry!!
praying for you! and Eddie

hugs to you

BARBIE said...

Sending you a big hug my friend, and lots of prayers!

Terry Legan said...

Praying for you. Lifting you up.
Love you.

YoSueño said...

No es fácil una situación así, espero que tengas paciencia.Un ABRAZO
FELIZ DÍA

Denise said...

I'm so sorry You have to live with so much anger.I know many many people have anger issues,it's so horrible-Oh Lord heal Him of this please-