Do you have any friends, or relatives that seem to only come around you when they need something? Otherwise, they have nothing to do with you. How does that make you feel? It probably hurts your feelings, and makes you feel a little bit used. Not a good feeling is it? Well, imagine how God feels when you run to Him when you are going through trials, and you cry out to Him, begging Him to help you. He always comes through for you with love and comfort. But, after the trial is over, and you are living in victory, how often do you seek God out with all of your heart? How many times do you get up in His lap for some Father-daughter time? Not often, right? That deeply griefs His heart, He longs for fellowship with you. He wants you to come to Him, and pour your heart out, not just when you need something from Him, but just because you want to share your day with Him. He loves you, and He wants to know that you love Him too.