Wednesday, May 2, 2007

I AM - So You Don't Have To Be-Lesson 4-Part 2


Discussion Questions:
1.) I am going to present to you a little acrostic to begin our discussion today. What is your latest NLIP? (Not like I planned?) Before my Mother passed away, my two brothers and my sister, rarely came to see her. Deep in my heart, I hoped and prayed that when my Mother passed away, we would all help each other through it. Boy, was I so wrong, I have not seen, nor heard from any of them since Mothers funeral, April 24, 2006 2.) How did you react to your NLIP? Are you still upset about it? Happy about it? Explain. At first, I was deeply saddened. I became very depressed over losing my Mother, and losing my brothers, and my sister. I am the youngest in our family, and for so long, while being the only one that took care of Mother, I felt like the oldest. So, after Mother passed away, it would have been so nice, to have been comforted by my brothers, and my sister. But, now since God lead me out of the darkness of my depression, I realize that God is my true family. He is such a wonderful, and loving comforter. 3.) Have you ever attempted to step into an area of ministry and found your desire rejected? Did this cause you to question God and yourself? Perhaps distrust what you perceived to be your calling? No, I have never experienced this situation. 4.) Do you harbor any bitterness towards any individual or situation which you believe waylaid your best laid plans? No 5.) Have you had a life experience or trial that left you with a shaken faith because it ended in an NLIP?When I was sexually abused by my stepfather as a young teenager, my Mother chose to believe him, instead of me. She kicked me out, I was totally lost. But, even then, God was watching over me, I praise Him for that. 5.) Based on Moses' response of faith to his own rejection, how will you re-evaluate your own experiences or look at future ones differently if a NLIP presents itself? I have chosen to fully rely upon my Saviour, He will not reject me, leave me, or hurt me. I love You Lord.

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry that your Mom was unable to believe you in your time of need.
I think that you seem to have been able to deal with it well though. You seem to be able to KNOW that God was with you through it all. What an encouragement to me in my situation!
In HIM -
Mindy

Pearls of Wisdom said...

I am so sorry for all you have been through and that your brothers and sister weren't and aren't there for you. God loves you and will never leave you and I am here for you my new wonderful sweet friend. I am so glad God has put you in my life. You are a wonderful person and inspiration. I am so glad neither of us harbor any bitterness for things we have been through. You are such a survivor , inspiration and wonderful friend and light. You are always in my prayers.

Love you,
xoox
Angel

Unknown said...

Your honesty and the fact that this is such a personal thing is really encouraging.
I'm also sorry that your Mother didn't believe you, as well.

Unashamed said...

All of the questions/your answers have really got me thinking...Thanks for sharing.

Connie Barris said...

sounds like we have traveled similiar roads...
very hurtful...
but praise God....first..for loving us.

I have to say,,, forgiveness was huge in my life....very freeing...

I'm proud for you....

I'll get to my questions this week..thanks for sharing yours.

blessings to you

Connie

Debbie said...

Denise, I am so glad you have been able to overcome. Praise God for Jesus!!

Anonymous said...

Im so excited to see this
I saw yours before I went over to Lisa's
I jiggled about in my seat in excitment
I love this study

God is so good. He is part of your family and you have many brothers and sisters in Christ who love you Denise

I love and agree with you my dear friend
"He will not reject me, leave me, or hurt me." and with you Im thanking Him.

Gretchen said...

Bless you, Denise. THank you for your post. Your God-given strength and faith shines through.

Nise' said...

Your faith is such a blessing and encouragement to many. Thanks for sharing so openly and honestly.